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Sunday, August 9, 2015

First Baths


William had his first bath finally today! He was ready to be wet again. This dry Idaho air doesn't do good on new heavenly skin ;). He really enjoyed it other than being super hungry so was kind of weirded out to be put into liquid instead of drinking it. He was so cute he started to suck on his hand really loud because he was so ready to eat!

First baths are special here in our home, because they don't get one at the birth center or the day their born. So, their first bath literally is with us at home. It's fun to see how they react and to snuggle them up in a towel afterward. Washing their soft skin and bald heads. Hearing the trickle of water from the cloth. There is so much I love about a baby in a bath!


Friday, August 7, 2015

Thin Things


There has been great need for the walls of our homes to be fortresses of safety from the beginning of time. From wind and rain, the heat, the cold...safety from all the elements is important. However, even more important is protection from the storms of the evil one. There is a rampant attack on all that is good in this life, most importantly, the family! In our modern era we are convinced that what the media says is correct, that Facebook Likes and Selfies are what bring happiness, that lyrics in a song don't mean a thing, that the make-up of a family doesn't matter, that animals are more important than people, that phones are another appendage, that one should get everything for nothing, to not respect ones elders...the list could go on and on. Society truly has stooped to a level of mediocrity that is causing a crumbling of moral value.

Right now James is reading a book called "Men of Valor" and he's been sharing it with me during late night feedings with my little man sometimes. It talks about and shares traits and habits that make good, really good, men. I have LOVED it!! The author shares this great line in one of his chapters:

"Don't get caught up in the thick of thin things."
~ Robert D Millet

This line rang out very loud to me. We busy our lives with lots and lots of thin things. Do we care about our spouse, our children, our grandparents..before we care about our outfit for the day or answering that text message? There are many things of importance but what is MOST important? Those are the things that should take up the thick of our time. What a great need there is to disconnect from our devises and worldly "to-dos" and really take a thick soak in the things that matter most!

It makes me think of the great story of Martha and Mary. As Jesus is teaching what was the most important thing to be doing? Not the dishes that's for sure. And dishes aren't a bad thing (well, they're definitely not fun to do!) but they were not as important as pausing to listen to the son of God. Do we pause to listen, really listen, to our children or our friends in need. 

Where do (should) we learn of the things of most importance? In the home. Our homes and families have the perfect make up to teach us of things of value. An apostle once stated,

"The place to cure most of the ills of society is in the homes of the people."
~ Joseph B. Wirthlin

In the very walls of our homes we have the potential to teach and focus on those things that make the world a better place. If we are seeking more peace in this world, less societal problems, a decrease in crime, a boost in economy and creativity and so much more, it must start in the home. So begin now to fortify your fortress and keep the storms out!!






Thursday, August 6, 2015

1 Week of Life


Wow. How quickly life happens when you're in love! Our little man turned a week old today. It's hard to believe that it's already been a full week! It feels like just yesterday James and I were at the birth center in awe we had a baby boy.


This little man has captured our hearts. Some fun things we've learned about him:
- he's a Toot-Meister! He has lots and lots of gas and always has a rumbly to surprise us.
- he loves to be held and be close to us
- he is such a good baby and doesn't cry too much, just when he really needs something (like milk, a bounce, a diaper change or some gas drops)
- he loves looking to light, and has such a strong neck
- he's a little boxer, his arms are super strong and he keeps them up to his face.
- he can make some reallllly great faces!
- he loves to eat!!

We are so grateful this little adorable man is a part of our family!!!!!!



An Addendum to Birth


There are still so many special thoughts and feelings about Williams birth that I need to put down so I don't forget. So this post is dedicated to the little moments and details. 

Our birth team was really James, William and I. I remember, even while in the last stages of labor thinking, "Man this is basically just James and I doing this! And baby boy on the other side." This was such a neat thought to me that we were already being a team even before little William entered the world. Trusting your body, your baby and your spouse really is so key in a natural birth! There is no other way to get you through it. But then we did have our great team of midwives there to make sure we were all safe as well. They really don't step in too much, only to monitor baby's heartbeat and make sure he's doing alright, and then they don't reallllly step in till the very end of pushing. They make sure baby is coming out safely and mama is not hyperventilating ;). I am so grateful for James. In both my babies births he's been right at my head letting me use him as support through the whole process. With not having a Doula this time I really needed him to be extra supportive, loving and strong.

One funny thing I forgot to write in Williams birth story was the wild whirlwind the morning of his birth. Just that evening we had driven all the way to Ashton ID with a trailer to get an outdoor table set from my brother and sister in law who are moving. I picked raspberries and watched Jane while Mister James loaded it all up and then I drove all the way home. We decided we'd unload it al. In the morning so we left it all hooked up. So while I was going through my early morning contractions James had to unload everything and go return the trailer to our sweet friends who let us borrow it. That was kind of a quiet testing moment of my strength because contractions were getting harder and I didn't want to be alone. But it strengthened my understanding of patience and longsuffering and my love for James. He had to load up the car, make all the phone calls and get us to Rigby safely. Maybe this was also a big reminder to always finish a project through ;) ALL the way.

At the end stages of labor there was a point when I felt the strong pushing urges and I remember James saying, "stay relaxed just breath through it." And he said I responded very firmly, "no, I need to push." This is a neat moment to me because a woman's body is built for birth, to know how to get her baby here is instinctual. Women really are not taught to trust in their bodies and the great capabilities they hold. Throughout ALL stages of motherhood trust in your instincts, listen to your baby and keep faith in your team!!!


Another special thing I hope to keep up with all the births of my children is thanking the team! With both births I have James "Daddy Doritos" and then made little "thank you's" for our midwives. This time round I gave them candles and little notepads to tell them thank you for helping us on this bright day (literally) bringing William into the world. I strongly believe in thanking people and want my children to also know how important that is. At our week appointment our head midwife gave me a big hug and said thanks back to me and made my day. Oh little thank you's go a long way!!


When William came out into the world with that final push it felt like he was a rocket hitting the earth. He shot out (or at least at that moment that's what it felt like) and was perfect. When the midwives put him up to my tummy and chest he was so calm. He seemed so mature and grown up from the moment we met him. The sweetest thing was how incredibly strong his neck was and how he wobbled his head about to look right up at me!!!! Just a few minutes old (out of the womb) and he was using his muscles to find his mama. It was so touching to look into his clear precious eyes and know that he knew, I'm his mama!

He was so good with his new baby exam. So still and calm. We so enjoyed those first few hours with just him at the birth center. He has a very calm and beautiful spirit about him. We are so thankful he is our son!


When we got home with William our sweet baby Jane was with a neighbor. We got a little more settled and when they dropped her off it was really special to have her meet her little brother and to be honored with some big sister items. She sweetly waved at her brother and kept saying baby. This first week of him being in our home has been wonderful and so very fast! Jane has been amazing with the change. She has been so patient with my recovery and with the big difference in not seeing me as much. I bought her a special chair and sidewalk chalk to celebrate this new stage of big sister and she loves them! James has been playing outside with the chalk with her and she loves sitting in her green chair! She's had a lot of one on one time with her dada, but she's starting to feel off schedule and needing mama a bit! So needless to say it's starting to get a little hard, so we're glad Grammys on her way today!


Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Various Thoughts and Quotes

This is the beginning of a series of posts from my journals. Most entries will be gospel related mixed with various experiences.

During my mission to Atlanta Georgia, I recorded various quotes and thoughts.

- Feed your body out of hunger and not habit, feed your spirit out of habit and not hunger.

- Discouragement is a catalyst for failure.

- Idleness is rust for the mind and body.

- The feelings that are available through the Holy Spirit are powerful enough to improve the course of any human life.

- Echos of Heaven, Echos of Heart
I do not fear death, for I know where I go (Alma 40:11)
I do not fear pain, for through pain I will grow (Alma 14:10-11)
I do not fear men, for their hate has an end (D&C 76:110)
Oh what of my family, of those whom I fend? (D&C 75:28)

I hope for their peace (Jude 1:2)
I work for their Joy (1 Nephi 8:12, 15)
Be still prick thy ear (Exd 15:16)
Here in lay my fear (Prov 29:25)

What if I fail? Cannot do my part? (Jacob 2:34)
My children, my family, I've broken their heart! (Jacob 2:35)
Oh what would I say? Oh what could I do?
My family is broken! My foundation is stolen! My children in tears! The core of my fears. (Alma 36:13)

My cannot bare my wife's broken heart (Jacob 2:35)
Oh Lord, let not this be real (Alma 32:35)
Oh let my heart not past feel! (Moroni 9:20)

Oh my son take heart and press on! (2 Nephi 8:30)
Have tust in My work (James 2:17, Alma 7:11-13, Hymn 194 vs 4 end)
Let it fill up thy heart,
Who thou now art
Echos in Heaven, Echos in heart ( Alma 34:34)

Monday, August 3, 2015

Being Mr Mom/Fommy


Being Mr. Mom/From!!!! James has been so awesome with helping so much at home with new William. There is no way I could recover, handle Jane, take care of a new baby, cook, clean and all else without my Mister by my side for a little while. He commented the other day that he doesn't make a very good Fom (father/mom), but I beg to differ.


With each birth I've bought James a special "Daddy Doritto" bag to eat after his kiddo is born. They are one of his favorites and it is such a big deal to be a good daddy and it makes me so grateful I married him that a Doritto bag is always in store at the arrival of a new bundle.

Mister James you're an awesome man, here's a few reasons why, from your clan;


From Mom: you take care of ALL of us. You are so fun with Jane and make her get lots of wiggles out, you are gentle with William and all his new learning, and you are caring to me wih helping me get sleep and food. Thanks for trying to keep the house in order, cause you know that means a lot to me. And thank you for making me feel beautiful when I definitely don't feel it.


From Jane: You're so fun dad!! I feel lucky to have one on one time with you (even though I can be cranky). You make me yummy food and you play "neigh" with me! Thanks for being my dad!


From William: You have held me so kindly from the very first hours of my life. There's nothing better than a good daddy swaddle! You stay up with mom and me a lot and make sure we're safe. You are going to teach me about being a valiant man!

So, there you have it Mister....you actually are a pretty good Fommy! :) We are so blessed you're at the head of our family. We love you and appreciate ALL you do for us! Thanks!

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Blue Moon


"Once in a blue moon" is how the old saying goes, and how fitting for the day my little man came into this life. The day he came into the world there was a blue moon! Meaning a rare 2nd full moon filled the sky that night. I remember driving just the night before William was born and being encaptured by the beauty of the moon in a dusty ombré sky. It's amazing to really appreciate the world around you. To really look at and study the intricacies of nature and life. There is no doubt in my mind that there is a God. This earth is witness of a higher being. The perfection of a human body in just 9 months is breathtaking and another witness that there is something greater, something more. 

I know that there is great purpose in this life! From the day we come into it, to the moment of our last breath there is purpose. The choices we make will determine our destinies! "Once in a blue moon" we are blessed with little miracles and moments to remind us of the importance of life and to protect it. Each little human body that comes into life is so important. The things they will do, think and say will make such a difference in this world.


I thought it was special that in the song "Blue Moon" there are the lyrics:

"Blue moon,
You knew just what I was there for
You heard me saying a prayer for
Someone I really could care for"

That is how I felt at Sir Williams birth. The purpose of why I was there drove me forward, many prayers were being said by family and James and I, and I truly received someone I could care for. As I go through the tired, overwhelming, joyful, exhausting, special, and sweet time of post labor I continue to be amazed at the human body. The way it heals, changes, provides, and loves is just incredible. I am thankful birth is just every "blue moon" though and not every day ;). Because it sure does a doozy on the body and emotions. How thankful I am that our little man was born on a blue moon so I could reflect on its importance. Don't forget the blessing of blue moons in your life. They happen so quickly, come and go and mean so much!


"Blue Moon"

Blue moon
You saw me standing alone
Without a dream in my heart
Without a love of my own

Blue moon
You knew just what I was there for
You heard me saying a prayer for
Someone I really could care for

And then there suddenly appeared before me
The only one my arms will hold
I heard somebody whisper please adore me
And when I looked to the moon it turned to gold

Blue moon
Now I'm no longer alone
Without a dream in my heart
Without a love of my own

And then there suddenly appeared before me
The only one my arms will ever hold
I heard somebody whisper please adore me
And when I looked the moon had turned to gold

Blue moon
Now I'm no longer alone
Without a dream in my heart
Without a love of my own

Blue moon
Now I'm no longer alone
Without a dream in my heart
Without a love of my own